When you really want to call him but...

We've all been there. Whether its a recent ex-boyfriend (or not so recent), someone new you're dating, or your frequent hook-up buddy. I get it, were only human and sometimes we get lonely and restless and just want someone to talk to and cuddle us. THATS OKAY. I don't think there is anything wrong with this. 
Unless...
It is 2 in the morning and you just left the bar with your friends. Any calls you make at this time will either go straight to voicemail (where you will for sure leave an embarrassing message or leave one by mistake while you talk on and on to your friends about that hot guy at the bar), or he will answer and invite you over. In this case it was just too easy, you weren't even expecting him to be awake anyway, who stays up past 2 on a Tuesday? Besides you and your friends of course...
Just don't do it. Get a cab. Or a safe ride home. Hydrate yourself and go to sleep. Work is still going to suck tomorrow whether you sleep alone or with someone else. 

I would go over every scenario I could think of, but the list would go on forever. Just remember, your life will still go on whether you call/text him or not. Personally, it usually makes me feel better to just leave it alone. If he wants to hear from you, he will call you. And if he doesn't call, well that is what tequila is for! (maybe just hide your phone!)           xo E